...and check out her sleek new site!

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Gina LaGuardia is one-of-a-kind in so many ways. Even though I'm a writer, it's hard to adequately summarize or describe all her incredible skills and gifts, and I am constantly pinching myself about working with someone so talented.

Throughout these six years of working together (we have still yet to meet in person but I feel as though we've been friends and co-workers for much longer than our six years!), I have added new skills, taken on new responsibilities, secured new clients through word-of-mouth as a direct result of working for hers, had articles published on sites I only dreamed of being published on (ReadersDigest.com, AARP.org, The Huffington Post, USNews.com), have seen my name and work in print in a fashion magazine available on newsstands in NYC, have seen the Twitter chat I've co-moderated hit trending status several times, have interviewed amazing people, and have enjoyed full-time work -- before becoming a mom, I often worked 8-10+ hours a day doing writing, editing and social media management -- for SIX years and counting.

As I've learned by working in this industry, that is a very. long. time.

And in my six years, I've had other clients come and go, and other clients who were not nearly as easy or enjoyable to work with -- especially not with the same level of professionalism, camaraderie, or rapport -- as Gina.

Besides that, I've met some of the industry's best and am proud to work alongside them -- supporting each other, sharing each other's content, providing story leads, quotes, interviewees and more -- as part of the Gina LaGuardia Editorial Services (GLES) team. 

I am grateful beyond words for all the personal growth and professional opportunities that working with and for Gina has afforded. She's made my dream of being a writer come true in ways I didn't think possible, and I am happy to give back in even just a small way by promoting her new site and social media pages/profiles. 

 

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At the end of May, I traveled to Bulgaria (for the second time this year) and came back as the mother of a nearly three-year-old girl. The last two months have been a whirlwind of activity and full of the exhaustion, excitement, wonder and worry that is parenthood. At the beginning of this month, I eased back into work, writing and managing less than in the months before I brought my daughter home, but enough that I have to figure out that difficult dance between work, play, rest and caregiving. 

I look forward to getting back into a monthly blog post routine for this site, but I am also open to receiving guest posts -- provided they fit my content niche -- both to give myself some wiggle room and offer exposure to those who would like to share content here. If you're interested, use the Contact form on this site to reach out.

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Isn't it crazy how the much-anticipated, super-hyped presidential election happened this month, but it already feels like a lifetime ago? So, since it's still November 2012 for one more day, I thought it was worth sharing something I posted on my Facebook page the day after the election:

We have the ability to advocate for the changes we want to see in government anytime, not just when voting every 4 years for the president.

If you're patient, passionate and persistent, you might actually see change occur...and imagine how much more fulfilling, exciting and meaningful that change would be if you had a part in it, instead of looking to someone else for it?

You know those other people on the ballot? Your local, state and federal officials? Get to know them. Talk to them. Hound them about the things that make you tick. Do something about the things you don't like. Change what you can. Channel your disappointment or delight about last night's outcome into something good. 

Advocate. Participate. ACT.

Your turn: What issues would you be willing to/do you already advocate about? 
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As I've been anticipating the arrival of our first child (via adoption) in the coming months, my own family's heritage, history, and roots have been on my mind just about all the time. Also, as other dear ones have recently encountered loss at the hands of Alzheimer's, I've been thinking about my grandfather, who passed away in January 2009 after his struggle with the terrible disease. Here's a peek into his -- our -- story, via an excerpt from an autobiography in the works:

Whenever I entered the room, I didn’t know what to expect, but I knew I would be sad when I left. During those months, I watched her watch him, watched her wither away into a fragile, tiny shell of a person, as he did the same (although he never lost his strength). I watched all of us struggle desperately to know what was the right thing to say or do when we visited, and I’m not sure any of us, except maybe my husband, figured it out.

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In all of our growing up years, we never spent that much time in his – their – bedroom. Yes, we used to play with her perfume in the bathroom, and try on her powder and foundation, but we only went into the bedroom to get to the bathroom.

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While we ate frokost (breakfast) that morning, I was antsy with anticipation, eager, surging with nerves of the good kind, as I waited for him to pick us up and take us to the land he loved, the land he called home as a child and as a young man, the land he always loved and remembered fondly. I couldn’t wait to see the land, to see his brothers, knowing it would be the closest thing to seeing him this side of heaven. I fully expected to cry when I saw him, when he hugged me, when he held me tightly against his tall frame, in the way he used to before he could no longer walk.

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My baby nephew was magic in those final months. When he was in the room, everyone else disappeared.

It was just the two of them, as far as he was concerned, and the little one always obliged, nuzzling his soft baby face against his coarse, unshaven one, and resting together, saying no words at all, but speaking more loudly to him than any of us could. We watched in amazement as these two souls connected on the deepest level possible, and maybe some of us even envied what they had, as we sat awkwardly, fumbling with words and our hands, trying to know what to say to make everything normal again.

Your turn: Has your family dealt with the devastation of Alzheimer's or dementia? Share what got you through, gave you hope.

If all goes as planned, I'll soon be unveiling a brand new website, which will include a list of services available to those of you (community and corporate professionals, elder care providers, and family caregivers alike) who are in need of elder care resources, advice, or expertise. As my husband and I continue down the long and winding path to international adoption, keeping busy is one way to keep my mind off the chasm that stands between now and becoming a family of three. I'm also being proactive: seeking ways to diversify what I'm currently doing in order to challenge myself professionally and creatively, and to have several possibilities for work that are not associated with daily deadlines or being tied to a computer for 8+ hours a day (so that I can focus on our little one). These new offerings have been requested by many friends, neighbors, family members and colleagues already, so I am simply making it a formal part of my portfolio. (Special thanks to friend and fellow blogger/entrepreneur Hayley Croom for pushing me to do this!)

Stay tuned for the website's launch, and feel free to contact me with any questions about services to be offered.

If you're like me, you're itching for the official arrival of autumn. Nevertheless, I hope you enjoy a productive end to the summer season!

When I discovered this video on YouTube a few weeks ago, I was struck by its message and approach: 

Yes, I'm usually focused on a completely different demographic, but what hooked me was the use of humor and "real people" to convey a serious message in a lighthearted, non-confrontational way. (Little did I know it was a message I needed to hear.)

Stereotyping and prejudices are no laughing matter, but I believe that humor and even sarcasm can break through the stubborn surface of people's misconceptions to reveal the truths they've been missing, ignoring, or denying. I've always loved satire for this reason, because some truths are better told "in slant," a la one of my favorites, Emily Dickinson. (This would also explain my obsession with JibJab, my subscription to MAD magazine, and why I never miss an episode of The Daily Show.)

Disarming someone with wit allows a vital message about a social issue to get through where it otherwise may have been firewalled, diverted or batted away like a pesky gnat.

Sometimes, the influence of the media (Hollywood movies, to reference an example from the video) is quite subtle. We know on a surface level that the media is powerful, but if we're educated, open-minded and self-aware, we like to think we're above that, that we don't buy into the media's overt or subliminal messages.

I know I'm guilty of that, and the video showed me just how guilty I am.

As I laughed about the shirtless Matthew McConaughey jokes in the video, my conscience was pricked. I had subconsciously absorbed and accepted some of the stereotypes it portrayed. Since I don't know very many African men (though all of the ones I do know are nothing like the ones in movies), I had allowed this mainstream perspective to fill in the gaps.

To prevent this slipping and sliding along the stereotype slope, make a conscious effort to interact with people outside of your usual group. Get to know someone new as a person and fellow human being, not a number or statistic or stereotype. If you ask me, that's the best way to throw off prejudices as a whole, to change our perspective of a "group," no matter if the group is elders or African men or lesbians or introverts.

Think about it this way: would you say something negative or derogatory about the wonderful grandparent or favorite elder teacher that you loved and admired? Or judge them based on their age? Pummel stereotypes and move into more realistic beliefs by putting a human face and name on the group you're prejudiced against.

Next time you're behind an elder who is driving slowly and you find yourself muttering aloud, "There should be an age limit for drivers," think of your vibrant, independent grandfather, or your lovely 84-year-old neighbor who is a better driver than you, and remember that "seniors" or "elders" are made up of individuals like these. (Hint: the same rule can apply elsewhere.)

Talk about it: how do you shatter stereotypes in your world?

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"We’re entering a totally new era in womanhood, and it’s exciting and terrifying." Read more about women in my generation, my mother's generation, and "dream with me" about the future you imagine for the women in your life. That's what my guest post for the FiftyIsTheNewForty blog is all about: http://www.fiftyisthenewforty.net/careers-planning/michelle-seitzer/